Pr 10.18
18 He who conceals hatred has lying lips,
And he who spreads slander is a fool.
The Parts
Parallelism Examined |
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18a |
18b |
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He |
he |
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who conceals |
who spreads |
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hatred |
slander |
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lying lips |
a fool |
lying (lips) – this is deception, falsehood, disappointment, fraud. Don’t make it less than it is! This act is often tied to covenant, treaty, and promise. What could be an act of self-protection ends in definite destruction!
slander – whispering, defamation, evil report, There’s a contrast with these “outside” words and the “inside” concealed words. What could be an act of “pleasure” ends in definite destruction!
fool – see discussion of this kind of “fool” in Proverbs . . . by way of remembrance, there are 4 “fools” in Proverbs, well worth understanding the differences!
If you’re interested in the “parallelism,” this is called synthetic, the second stanza expands or amplifies the first.
References to consider:
Pr 26.24 (Destroys you inside!)
24 He who hates disguises it with his lips,
But he lays up deceit in his heart.
Pr 26.26 (Destroys you in community!)
26 Though his hatred covers itself with guile,
His wickedness will be revealed before the assembly.
Pr 10.21
21 The lips of the righteous feed many,
But fools die for lack of understanding.
Pr 26.28
28 A lying tongue hates those it crushes,
And a flattering mouth works ruin.
Pr 12.12
12 The wicked man desires the booty of evil men,
But the root of the righteous yields fruit.
Pr 18.7
7 A fool’s mouth is his ruin,
And his lips are the snare of his soul.
Pr 19.1
1 Better is a poor man who walks in his integrity
Than he who is perverse in speech and is a fool.
The Fool — kesîl (kesil)
Description: This word translated “fool” describes someone who is dull, insensitive to wisdom, so occupied with the things of this world he is insensitive toward the things of God. Our term may be derived from an Arabic root suggesting “thick, plump, fat, thus thick-headed, stubborn.” He has a propensity to make wrong choices about finding life. Yet, this lifestyle is often appealing to the immature. Many of the “notables” of the world may be found here . . . people who “do their own thing.”
Let’s take the time to meet this “fool” (and, take time to read the Scriptures):
| He hates knowledge, Prov 1.22 | He considers sin a sport, Prov 10.23 |
| He has no knowledge, Prov 14.7 — “the Bible says, Get away from this person”! 1Cor 15.33 | He is boastful, Prov 14.16 |
| He causes harm to his companions, Prov 13.20 | He is careless, Prov 14.16 |
| He is unrealistic, Prov 18.24 | He is quick tempered, Prov 14.17; 29.11 |
| He thinks he can buy wisdom, Prov 17.16 — but he has no understanding! | He is angry and dangerous, Prov 17.12 — do not miss in the “fools” of Proverbs, a line is crossed with “anger,” this is a dangerous person! |
| He reveals his mind, Prov 18.2 | He is quarrelsome, Prov 18.6 |
| He proclaims folly, Prov 12.23; 18.2 | He is self-confident, Prov 28.26 |
| He displays folly, Prov 13.16 | He is unreliable with a message, Prov 26.6 |
| He feeds on folly, Prov 15.14 | He is talkative to his own destruction, Prov 18.7 |
| He returns to his folly like a dog to vomit, Prov 16.11 | His proverbs are dull and boomerang, Prov 26.7, 9 |
| He is easily deceived, Prov 14.8 | He is destroyed by his complacency, Prov 1.32 |
This “fool” grieves his parents, Prov 10.1; 17.25; 15.20, despises his mother. He is bound to his folly, Prov 17.10. One hundred blows cannot change him, though the rod could be applied! Be certain to note, Proverbs does not apply the rod to everyone, but here it applies!
Sharpening for my life today:
The wisdom of the Ancient Near East has much to say about speech, lying, and false witness. It is condemned across the board! Here’s a gem about “The Wisdom of Words.”
Do you speak? Do you remain silent? What do you hold in? What do you let out? We live in a culture which is presently prone to “share,” often a piece of our mind we shouldn’t be without! Regarding relationships, the prime purpose of “sharing,” speech is to minister to another, not hide or hurt or dump. The one who “conceals” is destroyed on the inside. The one who slanders destroys those on the outside.
Here’s a great principle: Words are the window to the world of our heart! Cap off your reflection of your own speech and this great Proverb by reading Eph 4.25-32, more good words for strong hearts serving the Lord!
